It’s easy to let our identity get wrapped up in what we do—especially if we love what we do. That’s an unfortunate way to find our identity. What happens to our identity at the end of the workday when we go home? Or what happens to that identity if we lose our job? If our identity is defined by our work or careers, those transitions can become debilitating.
I have written and preached about this many times, warning us to not tie our identity to our work. We are far more than what we do, but I have had to confront that message head on in recent days.
I retired last week.
Despite my preaching against this, I have too often embraced my work and ministry through Lifeway as a proud part of who I am. For 30+ years, I have thanked God for allowing me to have such a unique ministry—to do something that a lot of other people could’ve done, but for whatever reason, God let me do it. I’ve had a hand in developing 2400+ Bible studies, traveled to 49 states (sorry, North Dakota), participated in video productions, and written countless articles and studies. It has been a rich and rewarding experience, and I’ve never lost sight that I was a part of it all by the grace of God.
Because it was so unique and rich, I would often embrace it as a part of who I am, my identity. But now I’ve chosen to step away and slow down a bit, and it has been harder than I realized. Who am I now?
I am the same person I was last month—and last year. My identity is wrapped up in Christ. It’s who I am in Christ that matters.
“I have been crucified with Christ, and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me” (Gal. 2:20)
“For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory” (Col. 3:3-4).
I’m thankful for the decades I was a part of the Lifeway ministry and family, and I want to express that thanks without any pride of position. Instead, I say it with humility. I pray my identity in Christ was reflected in my work, just as I pray that my identity in Christ will be clear to all as I move into this next chapter.
What is that next chapter?
- I will continue to blog twice a week.
- I will do some occasional writing for Lifeway.
- I will serve in a part-time ministry role at my church.
- I will find woodworking projects for the 2000+ board feet of hardwood in my garage.
- I will sleep in, possibly as late as 5:30 a.m.
- I will continue to embrace who I am in Christ.
“Christ in you, the hope of glory” (Col. 1:27).
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Congratulations on your retirement ! Now, catch a plane to Minneapolis, then it’s only a 3hour & 42 minute drive to Fargo,ND. It’s a pretty cool town!
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Headed to Minneapolis in June, so maybe Fargo is in my future!
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Prayers for a fruitful “retirement” — You may find yourself busier than ever in the Lord’s work. Congrats on a new chapter.
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I always enjoy reading your comments. As to retirement and identity, my husband was a minister, pastoring 4 different churches during 40 years. So it took a while and prayers to find myself after his retirement and passing. He received his heavenly rewards before me but the Lord gave me Bible study classes to lead, and let me use my love for missions to inspire others in our church, plus many more blessings! Thankful!
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Thank you Mr Pryor for your work, I have been enriched and grown from your writings, I thank GOD for the opportunity to have been a part of your journey & pray for the success of your next chapter in Christ, blessings Nora Campbell.
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THANK YOU for your Team leadership of Lifeway Senior Adult Bible Study lessons. Blessings in your retirement. Love your blog!!
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Well done faithful servant. I have learned so much from your articles. Thank you. Enjoy your new way to serve.
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Thank you for your service. I have enjoyed your articles
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Mr. Pryor,
First, let me say that I have enjoyed your writing immensely! You have done such a great job with the information you have provided for Bible Studies for Life. Your works have been a tremendous help to me as I try to teach our Sunday School class each week. You will certainly be missed!
I hope that you really enjoy your retirement! I have been retired almost 4 years and I have enjoyed every minute of my retirement. So, as much as I hate to realize that you won’t be writing our Sunday School helps each week, I cannot deny you this special time in your life. May you get to slow down to your pace and do what you want to do when you want to do it! That is one of the many joys of retirement in my opinion.
May God continue to bless you!
Sincerely,
Theresa Skinner
Mississippi
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Congratulations on your retirement.
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From a jealous reader and a faithful one:
You will wonder when you ever had time to work.
ENJOY-ENJOY-ENJOY!
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Congratulations on your retirement. I have followed your blog for quite a long time and also have read some of your studies. I visited your home once with Lilas Outlaw and saw the fabulous cabinet you built for your wife’s hobbies. Grace was a dear friend, and Debbie made a road trip with Lilas and some friends to attend our granddaughter’s wedding in Florida. I hope you thoroughly enjoy retirement and know you will continue in the Lord’s work.
Joyce Bell
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Lynn, it has been my pleasure to count you and Mary as friends and have been enriched by your words each week. I’m so glad you aren’t completely retiring and will look forward to reading your blog. Please keep
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God Bless you in your retirement. After a while you will wonder how you had time to work. God will keep you busy for Him. Our Bible Fellowship Class love your podcast. Will you still be doing those? Russell First Baptist Church listens each week. Anna McCaleb
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I continue with the podcasts through August. Thank you for your kind words.
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I’ve been where you are now, Lynn. Nine years ago, I retired from full time teaching after 43 years in the profession. Somehow, as time went on, I’ve missed it less and less until now I’ve reached the point where I ask God to not allow me to go back there anymore.
They were all good years, but I’ve found a better life teaching Bible study, building ramps for handicapped people, working with Texans On Mission and, as you say, doing woodwork in my shop.
Give yourself time.
Troy
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You will be missed! Listen to the podcast every week. Read all your emails! Prayers for a great retirement!
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I am surprised!! I have enjoyed your blogs and your help with the SS lessons over the years. Thank you and enjoy your retirement!!
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