We’re familiar with the ancient con called the Shell Game. We’re sure we know where the pea is, but … nope. Wrong again. We’ve been duped.
If we fall for it enough, hopefully we get the idea: we’re not stupid; we’re just being conned.
The biggest con artist is Satan. He knows our weak areas. He knows the areas where we’re most vulnerable. And he’ll work those to his advantage.
Paul warned the church to watch for the devil’s con.
“… in order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes” (2 Cor. 2:11).
The principle is simple: keep an eye out for Satan’s tricks. If he can pull us into sin, he has succeeded in hampering our walk with Christ. Our role as Christ’s representatives has become ineffective.
So what is the biggest tool in Satan’s bag of tricks? One sin is prevalent among believers—and it’s one we don’t often acknowledge. In fact, many of us have learned to live with it.
Seriously? That’s the worst sin you can think of?
If I can identify one sin that grips so many believers and keeps them moving forward, this is it. The Apostle Paul would be right there with me because in the section of 2 Corinthians where he wrote of Satan’s schemes he was addressing a matter of restoring a man to the community of faith. No one knows who this person was or what his sin was, but we do know he repented and sought to be fully restored to his fellow believers. Paul admonished the church to forgive and restore:
“Now instead, you ought to forgive and comfort him, so that he will not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. I urge you, therefore, to reaffirm your love for him” (2 Cor. 2:7-8).
Forgive. Don’t hold his past over his head. Don’t go all legalistic on him and only restore him after years of proving himself worthy.
And this is where Paul tied forgiveness to not being outwitted by Satan. Read verse 11 in light of verse 10.
“Anyone you forgive, I also forgive. And what I have forgiven—if there was anything to forgive—I have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake, in order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes” (vv. 10-11).
Why is unforgiveness such an effective tool for Satan? Unforgiveness affects relationships.
1. If he can lure me into not forgiving another believer, the church is affected. Our ministry is hampered, and our witness to the world is negatively impacted. Ever observed a church split and its impression on the community? It’s not good. Jesus said that people will know us by our love, but there is no love where unforgiveness dwells. Unforgiveness never points to Christ.
2. If I am unforgiving toward an unbeliever, I will make no effort to lead him to Christ. I also hinder someone else’s witness to the person.
- It’s a wall between me and the other person.
- It’s a wall between that person and Christ.
- And it is a wall between me and Christ. ““But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matt. 6:15).
Unforgiveness may be a major tool for Satan, but Jesus has a greater tool: forgiveness. “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Eph. 4:31).
It’s time to knock down the wall.
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This post supports the study “A Prayer of Confession” in Bible Studies for Life.
This study on prayer is just incredible. We are just starting the series so a little behind but there is SO much here. Thank you! ❤️
Thank you for this timely reminder to always forgive others, just as Jesus Christ has forgiven us. Satan’s goal is to mame and destroy so when we don’t forgive others, it’s only hurting us. A lot of people think they are teaching that person a lesson, but we are not teaching the other person anything, except self righteousness, and we always end up hurting ourselves more. We have to let it go and forgive and not keep a record of it. If God kept a record of everything I’ve done, I would be in serious trouble.